I'm setting goals for myself. It's definitely what anyone who is grieving should do. (Actually everyone should have some sort of goal, it gives you purpose.) The only thing is - dealing with loss can send you into different directions. I'm a little all over the place right now- but trying to focus. A new career move is first on my list. What that is remains to be seen. I guess I will know when it happens. Second on my list- travel. California, Seattle (both for vacation and to see friends) Denver- not in the winter though...Arizona, Chicago and Toronto. Not in that order - and probably not all this year either. But we will be flying a lot - hopefully- for the next few years. Also on the list- finding where I want to be. I know many people would think I was crazy for moving again, (we literally just moved into our new house in June). But things just aren't the same, and frankly- the house was an investment. This move was temporary- (maybe not this temporary) but I have a yearning to be somewhere else and as soon as possible. So as long as the market is right- we will sell. The problem is where? To be continued I guess...
So yes- many different directions- the key is finding which path to take and the ultimate destination...But I'm working on it.